I've noticed there have been many postings in the forums by women who are looking to make local friends. If you want my opinion I would say that the "4 Minute Women Friending" events are fantastic for meeting new people.
I have been running women only events for about 2-3 years now and with my own eyes I have seen people go to the events and then become real friends. Like hang out, talk on the phone, support each other friends.
I promise I am not just saying this to sell more tickets. Check an event out and see for yourself. We have two on the calendar right now and we probably won't do this again in Princeton or Bloomfield for about 6 months to 1 year so if you miss a local event you will have to wait.
These are absolutely great!! I went to one several months ago and made 3 very good friends as a result!!! Have an open mind, and remember that everyone else is there for the same reasons you are! Have fun!!